Good questions

$65 a seat. That covers a reserved room, your host, name and match cards, twelve conversations and your matches by email. Drinks are at bar prices.

Yes. Book two seats at the same evening. You won't be seated together, but you'll have someone to debrief with at the interval.

The bracket your age falls in. Brackets overlap, so if you're 30 you can choose 22–30 or 28–38. Please stay within your bracket so the room works for everyone.

You'll get one automatically when you book, using your email. There's no password: we email you a sign-in link whenever you want to see your bookings or update your profile.

Whatever you'd wear to drinks with a friend. Comfortable beats impressive.

Not at all. Every venue has good non-alcoholic options and nobody will ask.

Tell the host when you arrive and we'll skip that conversation. You'll have a few extra minutes at the bar.

About two hours. Arrive fifteen minutes before the start time, conversations begin shortly after, and cards go in around the two-hour mark. Stay and mingle afterwards if you like.

Your booking email lists step-free access, the nearest accessible toilet and seating details. If you need anything else, reply to your booking email and we'll sort it before the night.

At the end of the night you tick the seats you'd like to see again. If someone you ticked also ticked you, you both get an email at 9am the next morning with each other's first name and email address.

No. We never share phone numbers. A match only shares a first name and email, and only when it's mutual.

Nothing is shared and nobody knows. You've still had twelve real conversations and a good night out.

Be kind, be respectful, take no for an answer, and keep your phone away. Anyone who makes another guest uncomfortable is asked to leave and isn't invited back.

Tell the host at any point, quietly or by catching their eye. You don't need to explain. They'll step in, and you can also report it afterwards through the contact page.

Yes. Cancel any time before the evening and the full amount goes back to your card automatically, from the link in your booking email or your account page.

Each side has twelve seats. If it's uneven on the night because of a late cancellation, the extra guests get a free seat at their next evening.

You get a full refund automatically, or you can choose another evening.

Yes. Melbourne, Brisbane, Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch are next. Leave your details on the contact page and you'll hear when your city opens.

They're planned. Tell us on the contact page and we'll let you know when the first one opens.